If — like me — you have been wounded by narcissistic abuse in the past, how do you protect yourself from anything like that ever happening again? Pastor Dave Orrison has some advice I believe is spot on: he says your identity is key.
Quoting from Pastor Dave’s latest “Narcissistic Friday” post:
“…narcissists depend on our needs, our fears, and our vulnerability. If we come into the relationship, whether it is at work, at church, or dating, content in who we are, the narcissist has nothing to use against us. Emotional and spiritual health lie in an accurate and confident understanding of who we are.”
Please click on the link below and read this very excellent post in its entirety. If you wish to comment, I think it would be best to show your appreciation to the author by leaving your comments on his site. However, I am interested in reading your thoughts here too, so maybe you can copy and paste your comment in both places? But if that’s too much of a hassle, please just leave your comment for Pastor Dave on his Grace For my Heart blog.
Thank you and God bless!
It’s Narcissist Friday!
Okay, so I know that I have stumbled into narcissistic relationships and have suffered for it. How do I avoid this in the future? Is there a way to protect myself from narcissists?
Good and strong people still find themselves to be the targets of narcissistic manipulation and/or rage from time to time, but there may be a way to keep your relationships narcissist-free. So while narcissists may attack you or try to use you, you may be able to protect yourself against the soul-eating relationships you have suffered before. In fact, you may also be able to make yourself less susceptible to narcissistic manipulation in the relationships you have now.
The key is identity. Who are you? Are you willing to find security and strength in who you are?
You see, in our minds (and in the minds of others), we suffer from identity confusion. …
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